So this morning, I come upstairs to do my morning stuff. When I walk back downstairs, my wife informs me that God has told her to move to Cabo and buy the Vista Vela penthouse – there’s only one left. Here’s a representative view, from a neighboring unit:
If you’ve been playing along at home, you know that we were buying a home – Casa Wendy – back in March, when Kim decided that she didn’t want to live in Mexico. As the Grateful Dead sang, “…nothing left to do but smile, smile smile!”
Then we came home, and she told me that instead, we’d go to Colorado. Then I backed out of the deal, and we didn’t buy the house on Latigo. I just couldn’t bring myself to let Ethel cry and get over it. When a woman cries, a man is supposed to do something. That’s the rules.
Since then, we’ve made another trip down there, but we could never agree on a house. And it’s not been going well.
So, this morning, Ethel did a 360 on me 🙂
The condo won’t be ready until June 1st. Once I got over the initial shock, we talked about what needed to be done, and when, and our realtor said “if you’re going to sell, sell now – we don’t know what next spring will be like.”
So then we actually started getting the house ready to sell. We started taking stuff off the walls. And we have a lot of stuff on our walls.
We decided to put everything into two groups – one group of sstuff to go to Cabo San Lucas, and one to go to a possible small condo in Colorado, if what we’re looking for ever shows up.
All day long, the aftershocks have been hitting me. As we’ve been taking stuff down, it’s become real, and I’m starting to feel like this is a bad idea. We can’t do this. This is despite having been talking about moving to Cabo since our first visit there, in June of 2011. Ten years ago.
It’s kind of like retirement. We know that if we leave here, we’ll regret it. But if we don’t go, we’ll regret not going. It’s impossible to know which regret will be larger. Of course, if we stay here, then the regret about not going to Cabo will be a theoretical regret, and it’s been my contention for many years that theoretical consequences are much easier to live with than actual consequences. That’s why I don’t believe those folks that say “You regret what you don’t do more than what you do do”. Folks who talk like that probably haven’t been arrested much.
Let’s see how I feel in the morning. We have five days to back out of this and still get our (rather large) reservation fee back. After that, we have ten days before we have to make the down payment.
I would say that I’m excited, but – I’m still decaffeinating. And one can’t generate excitement when decaffeinating 🙂 However, even with no caffeine in my system, I’m still able to register shock 🙂